Because you aren’t looking for one. You don’t want a “nice” or “good” guy. Nice and Good have become ambiguous through overuse.
My shoes are nice.
Margaritas are good.
You are looking for excitement. A mindset that sees things a different light. That wants to grow together with you. It can be large goals and a determination to succeed that attracts you. It could be his devotion to make you relax, breathe and smile everyday.
In life and in love, excitement is the golden area right outside your comfort zone.
Make a list of what scares the hell out of you, and get started knocking them out today.